I’m not going to get on my soap box and bang the drum about how important recruiters are in the job search process. Most people know we don’t make the final decisions, and many lovely candidates that work with us, won’t chat with us again for a few years because of many reasons such as they found their ideal job opportunity, or their search revealed they needed to go back to school or many other valid reasons. As recruiters though, we are able to open doors for people but ONLY after they have walked through them. Meaning our role is as an advisor rather than a driver.
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In a world of unlimited choices and limited means, choosing when to say Yes and when to say No can define our fate. Yes opens up possibilities and is closely followed by that wonderful question “how?” but No seems to be far more final.
For me, No is a feeling to be explored, examined and challenged. It gets to the bottom of who we are and can actually lead to some of the most wonderful self-realizations. There should always be a caveat behind it – we should ask ourselves “why not?”
As we approach the 4th of July, independence of thought, speech and action is something that I always aspire to as the foundation of how I want to live in this world. The external forces of life don’t always make it easy, conspiring to pull me in various directions, but I do try to live on my own terms as much as possible. If I am going to behave in a certain way or adopt a certain mindset, I aim to explore whether I am ready to give it my personal seal of approval first.
Independence is born in the act of deciding how to live my life, owning it and making it uniquely mine.
Life can be unpredictable, but habits give us the structure we need to offset that chaos, enabling us to thrive and grow. When we create a regular “space” in our day for a habit, it opens up an opportunity to tweak our lives for the better.
Even the smallest habits give us a dependable starting point for those all-important tweaks, and from that sure footing, we gain the confidence to tackle the challenges that await. (more…)
For many of us, life is about a search for clarity. We ask questions of ourselves and others, but it is rare that answers are immediately found. The resultant uncertainty is a constant companion for most of us in our daily lives, and we have a choice to ignore it or embrace it. In my view, while it might not feel great, exploring our uncertainties is exactly what the doctor ordered to give birth to true clarity in our lives. (more…)
We can become more than the sum of our parts.
When we choose to play the part of the person that we wish to be, letting go of our limiting beliefs, we give ourselves room to grow. When we suspend the mental obstacles that have held us back, all sorts of surprising things can happen. (more…)
Like a spring that has lost its shape, life can overstretch us sometimes.
Past memories and decisions define future actions, preconceived ideas warp our thoughts, and the opinions of others can cloud our knowledge of who we are. We don’t feel like ourselves anymore. (more…)
Cultivating the seed of intention means trusting your inner voice.
You wake up one morning and decide to make a change. You set yourself a goal that feels true to who you are, and you feel inspired as you think about it. Thinking about change is deliciously enjoyable as you haven’t yet come up against the reality of making it happen. However, when that day comes, unless you keep that little part of “you” in your heart, it is all too easy to lose your way. If you act on your terms, in your own time, following your inspiration, you will give your life the best possible chance of flourishing. (more…)